Address | Second Aspect of Personality Development for Professionals
In the previous article, we explored the significance of Dressing—the first aspect of personality development—and how it plays a powerful role in shaping first impressions and professional identity, particularly in architecture and related fields. Now, we move on to the second aspect of personality development: Address.
While the word “address” may commonly refer to location or speech, in the context of personality development, it refers to the way you approach, greet, and interact with others. It is about your tone, manner, and conduct when engaging with individuals across various social and professional hierarchies. How you address others is one of the most revealing aspects of your personality. It communicates your confidence, upbringing, social awareness, and respect for other people.
Before diving deep, let’s remind ourselves of the Seven Key Aspects of Personality Development for Professionals:
- Dress
- Address
- Good Language
- Punctuality
- Planning your work
- Habit to postpone the work
- Telephone conversation
What Do We Mean by ‘Address’ in Personality Development?
Address, in this context, is the manner in which you interact and express yourself when speaking to others. It includes:
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The way you greet people
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The words and tone you use when starting or joining a conversation
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How you show respect for age, seniority, and context
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Your etiquette in formal and informal situations
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The ability to introduce yourself and others with clarity
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The politeness and sensitivity with which you speak, especially in group or professional settings
In a professional environment—especially in fields like architecture, planning, and engineering—how you address others can influence your relationships, your reputation, and your growth. Whether you’re dealing with a senior partner, a new intern, a client, or a contractor, addressing others appropriately shows that you are mature, composed, and considerate.
Why Does It Matter?
You may have brilliant ideas and strong design skills, but if you cannot express them respectfully, or if you come across as dismissive or impolite, your message can be lost—or worse, you may damage professional relationships. Your manner of address can either open doors or shut them.
In multidisciplinary teams, your projects depend on collaboration. Addressing your colleagues and collaborators with care builds trust and rapport. On the other hand, poor manners—interrupting others, talking over people, ignoring introductions, or using the wrong tone—can create discomfort and even conflict.
In essence, your ability to address others properly is one of the strongest indicators of your emotional intelligence and professional readiness.